Thoughts about Thoughts

Otto Gutfreund – Anxiety, 1911-12, plaster his file is licensed under the Creative Commons Attribution-Share Alike 4.0 International license. Author: Ablakok

by Anthony J. Marsella, Ph.D.

Seeking Respite . .

We seek respite from a relentless assault of information bombarding senses. Consciousness and conscience beg retreat. Daily life trials, media, commercials, TV/radio/music, ambient noise levels, are onslaughts, pressing for a response.

A quiet dinner with family, a glass of sherry, hugging a child, a good novel, a deep sleep, a smile from a loved one, a halt in bombing, food, water, a warm fire . . . temporary escapes from the world about us. Tides of information flood our lives.  “There are tides in the life of men, which taken at the flood, . . . .”   

Uncertainty thrives! Connection in our hand; solutions, problems, doubt . . . “To open or not to open, that is the question!”

A window beckons! Habit presses! St. Thomas Aquinas: “Habit is our second nature.”  What have we become?  We are I-Phone, screen, words! How distant from the time Pablo Neruda (Full Powers, 1962) poetically claimed the first word was uttered:

                               The word was born in the blood,

                  it grew in the dark body, pulsing,

                  and took flight with the lips and mouth.

. . . even now there is no thunder

that thunders with the iron sound

of that word, the first word uttered:

. . . perhaps it was just a whisper, a raindrop,

but its cascade still falls and falls.

With words came a desperate need to explore, to label reality, an inherent tendency to describe, understand, predict, control; functions of brain! Poetry, music, functions of mind! Information torrents flow with a click:  fact, fiction, lies, deceit, betrayal, never truths, only endless representations.  

A New Ontology . . .

Ambivalence! Seduction of the senses tempts us with words, images, sounds; we cannot ignore the call! We are, in a moment, alerted to a new reality, a digital reality, a binary code of 0s and 1s, quantum reality, and beyond! A digital reality! At last escape from place and mind! How distant from the first word uttered! 

Existence! We are one with a glowing window in our palm. Certainty, uncertainty, who cares? We seek affirmation amid tenuous habits, beliefs, hopes; prisoner now to a habit, addiction ushered upon us by the times.

“What have I missed? What do I not know? What places me at risk? What offers me favor?” Information negotiation amid rapid access to knowledge, wisdom, impulse. 5G will offer faster speeds, solutions, confusion.    

We withdraw to protect sanity!  We refuse to contest! We pretend our life, all lives, are to be questioned, accepted, avoided! It cannot be! Stop! Start!

 All is personal! Events in distant lands beg awareness, judgment, action. Floods in Bangladesh!  It is what it is? Killing and rape in Myanmar! Tragic! Helpless! Plastic wrapper on food! Do not purchase in future. So little choice! Share opinions on political candidates. Minions reply!  

Treasured virtues fall before us, demands upon our being: justice, honor, courage, honesty, compassion, patience. Who said these were admirable? Ancients! Priests! Prophets! Gone! Commission and omission sins!

What can I do? What should I do? Conscience asks too much of me! Others ask more! Foes are legion!

         “I am only one……. but I am one! 

         In me are others! Many others!  

        Many denied me! Many hurt me! Many cared! Many………

Response is a test; always a test, never free from tests! Tests every day, in many ways; demanding tests of nature, character, breeding, identity! 

I flee from foe, but I return for the struggle! Delude myself I will survive.   Mirror image remains. What did we do before mirrors? Narcissus used a pond! Image essential. Deceit possible! Daily encounter with self!

If I succumb to pretense, and retreat, it is I!  If I take up challenges, it is I!  If I . . . “Aye that’s the rub!”

Thoughts on thoughts on thoughts . . . . . .

Psychology’s “Dark Triad” and the Billionaire Class, Part 2

by Roy Eidelson

Source: Roy Eidelson

Psychopathy

The second component of the Dark Triad — psychopathy — refers to a person’s lack of empathy toward others and a tendency to behave in a callous and uncaring manner toward them. Here too, research by psychologists supports the view that, compared to their “lower-class” counterparts, “upper-class” individuals act with less compassion — and also fall short on certain basic skills necessary for building positive connections with other people.

In one experiment, for example, lower-income participants were substantially more willing to take on extra work to help out a distressed research partner than were the upper-income participants. In another study, lower-class participants demonstrated a stronger compassion-related physiological response than did their upper-class counterparts after watching a video of children suffering from cancer. In a related study, the lower-class participants in a stressful interview process showed greater sensitivity and compassion toward their competitors than did the upper-class interviewees. And in an experiment with four-year-old children, those from less wealthy homes behaved more altruistically than those from wealthier homes, donating more of their prize tokens to children they were told were hospitalized.

In other studies, individuals from a lower social class were significantly better than upper-class participants at judging the emotions being portrayed when they were presented with photos of human faces. The researchers concluded that this enhanced ability may reflect the reality that those who are less well-off must rely more on accurately reading their social environment, because they depend more on interpersonal relationships and collaborative efforts in their daily lives. On the other hand, individuals with extensive material resources like today’s super-rich are more likely to find close relationships, especially with people of lesser means, quite unnecessary in their goal-oriented pursuits — and their perspective-taking abilities may suffer as a result.

In the business world, a compassion deficit among members of the billionaire class isn’t very hard to see. For example, rarely do we hear the CEOs of today’s corporate behemoths acknowledge the critical role that they themselves play in blocking upward mobility and financial security for millions of working-class Americans. Most obviously, union-busting and related “right-to-work” efforts suppress the wages and benefits that could dramatically improve the lives of working families. More broadly, despite substantial increases in worker productivity over the past few decades, the super-rich have directed the rewards of economic growth into their own pockets rather than into their employees’ paychecks. Likewise, international trade agreements, written in secret with strong corporate representation, have prioritized protecting profits for huge companies over safeguarding wages, human rights, and the environment. Perhaps this callousness is captured especially well by Amazon’s billionaire CEO Jeff Bezos, who reportedly once described his negotiating approach as similar to “the way a cheetah would pursue a sickly gazelle.”

Narcissism

The third trait of the Dark Triad — narcissism — refers to an individual’s sense of superiority over other people and convictions about personal entitlement to special treatment. Once again, in a diverse set of psychological studies, individuals of higher social class displayed greater levels of narcissism and entitlement than did their less wealthy counterparts.

In one study, for example, participants who rated themselves higher on a measure of socioeconomic status also scored higher on a scale designed to measure psychological entitlement; a sample item from that scale is “I honestly feel I’m just more deserving than others.” Another study instead used a nonverbal measure of entitlement. Participants looked at sets of circles of varying sizes and were asked to identify which size circle best described how they saw themselves compared to others. Those of higher social status picked larger circles as their self-descriptors than did those of lower social status. In a third study that used a behavioral measure of narcissism, upper-class participants were more likely than their lower-class counterparts to make use of a wall mirror before having their photos taken. In a survey study, researchers in Germany directly assessed a sample of very high net-worth individuals. They too found that this group scored higher on a measure of narcissism compared to a separate sample of people of lesser economic means.

In the board room and beyond, the narcissistic super-rich are accustomed to being in charge and to having things their way — unlike those they sometimes refer to as “the little people.” Of course, they don’t necessarily feel fortunate in this regard because, by their own account, they fully deserve all the benefits and privileges bestowed upon them. The special favors they receive are particularly apparent when we consider the corrupting influence of wealth on “equal justice under law,” the hallowed words engraved atop the Supreme Court Building in our nation’s capital. Indeed, unequal treatment runs the gamut from the likelihood of arrest and prosecution to the leniency offered in sentencing. As one example of these unwritten norms, wealthy tax cheats have developed a broad repertoire of arguments — based on notions of personal superiority — for why they should receive a light sentence or no sentence at all after being caught, prosecuted, and found guilty (all rarities in their own right). Their farfetched justifications — which some judges nevertheless find persuasive — include all of the following: they’ve already suffered sufficient public humiliation for their misdeeds; although they cheated, they’ve also been generous in their charitable donations; the fines they’ve paid were sufficiently punitive; and their status as “job creators” makes it unwise to remove them from the community and put them behind bars.

Note from KMM: Pegean says, Narcissism? Narcissist? Where have i heard those words before? Somewhere in this blog….

Even the cat thinks we live in interesting times (and what you can do about it)

By Pegean

Pegean says: Don’t just collapse under the weight of the constant media blitzes!  Don’t take the news lying down!

It’s almost like Watergate revisited—or Watergate revisited plus a million social media sites adding to the jangle of competing news stories (and fake news stories) .

How can you make sense out of any of it????

Helping you to make sense of it is Engaging Peace’s mission. We strive to help you understand the psychological tactics that politicians (and the power mongers they represent) have used (and continue to use) to get us into the fix we’re in today: Another President facing impeachment! Rumors left and right! Mass shootings! Constant threats of war and nuclear disaster! Impending environmental catastrophe!

School children on the march! Sanctuary cities! Human rights!

What’s right? What’s wrong? What’s good? What’s bad?

You can get countless news stories over the radio and TV and the social media—with a multitude of facts (some true) and figures (some true) and histories (some true) but a dearth of psychological analysis. Give peace (and Engaging Peace) a chance!

Please support our efforts to divulge the tactics used by power mongers to get themselves richer as they rush to the brink. Contribute to our efforts to mobilize alternatives. It’s not too late to turn the tide.

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Climate action day: The most beautiful day!

by Deborah Belle

It was the most beautiful day in the history of the world, or some reasonable facsimile thereof. The sky was the tenderest blue. The sun warmed the skin and created gorgeous deep shadows. Trees kept their green leaves, with only a few branches turned a brilliant red.  It was a wondrous day to be alive and to be on planet Earth.

There was a poignancy to all this beauty as the plaza at Boston’s Government Center filled with thousands of young people and their elders, everyone come to bear witness to the terrible threats facing our beloved planet and the urgent need to act now before we lose it all.

There were adorable children with their homemade signs. A contingent of folks protesting the fracked gas Compressor Station proposed for the South Shore to transport fracked gas to Canada. Folks from the Sunrise Movement helping to register new voters. Others stressing the need to protect our water, our birds, our biodiversity.

And this was only the beginning of only one of the 4,638 climate strike actions taking place today around the country and around the world. Will we act in time? The beauty of the day demanded it.

Note from KMM: Pegean says
“Tho I am just a cat forsooth,
I see the lies. I see the truth.
I want this world of ours to thrive.
Pease help me keep our earth alive.”